Husband sits down on the couch and throws his feet up on the ottoman. He whooshes out a breath, relieved to be done with most of the settling in to our new apartment. Almost instantly he asks, "So... how long before you want to rearrange the furniture again?"
For someone who doesn't like change, I like change an awful lot.
My room as a kid was a small space with lots of furniture. Being that this was pre HGTV and there was no headquarters for small space ideas to turn to, you would think there wasn't much you could do with such little room. Au contraire. I was a magician. I could pull a reading quarter out of a hat and still have room for a sleeping nook and a writer's station. It wasn't always the most sensible of layouts but it wouldn't last forever. It wouldn't even last two months.
In college, my roommates would come home late night and lit and sling their sloshed bodies onto the couch only to fall face first onto the hardwood floor. "Who moved the couch?" After a while they started penciling in Jen's Moving Furniture Days t the schedule so that they knew when a change was coming.
Like my Abuelita Dora, who relocated houses more often than an army family (one time she moved to the house next door just to "change it up"), I needed changes, small changes - move the bed there and a chair here and voilà!
Prest-O change-O.
Life abroad is kind of the same thing... just on a larger scale. If you grow tired of your Caribbean motif apartment in Santo Domingo, why not change it up for an Asian themed highrise in Shanghai. Tired of that? Trade in for a place with a European feel in Croatia. Sick of sipping on some café au laits, move to a house with an African concept in Mozambique.
Like David Bowie says, "ch ch changes."
Some people have said that they are envious of the lifestyle we've chosen here. That they would never be able to do what I'm doing. That it takes a certain kind of person. I tend to think anyone could do this - you just have to actually do it. Leap and the net will appear type thing.
Many things about my personality have equipped me for this lifestyle: being a social person helps, making friends easily is a good one, being a writer is huge (for me) since it allows me to spend time alone and process the things I am experiencing. But welcoming change - maybe not always liking it, but welcoming it anyway - that's the biggest element that has equipped me for life abroad.
For someone who doesn't like change, I like change an awful lot.
My room as a kid was a small space with lots of furniture. Being that this was pre HGTV and there was no headquarters for small space ideas to turn to, you would think there wasn't much you could do with such little room. Au contraire. I was a magician. I could pull a reading quarter out of a hat and still have room for a sleeping nook and a writer's station. It wasn't always the most sensible of layouts but it wouldn't last forever. It wouldn't even last two months.
In college, my roommates would come home late night and lit and sling their sloshed bodies onto the couch only to fall face first onto the hardwood floor. "Who moved the couch?" After a while they started penciling in Jen's Moving Furniture Days t the schedule so that they knew when a change was coming.
Like my Abuelita Dora, who relocated houses more often than an army family (one time she moved to the house next door just to "change it up"), I needed changes, small changes - move the bed there and a chair here and voilà!
Prest-O change-O.
Life abroad is kind of the same thing... just on a larger scale. If you grow tired of your Caribbean motif apartment in Santo Domingo, why not change it up for an Asian themed highrise in Shanghai. Tired of that? Trade in for a place with a European feel in Croatia. Sick of sipping on some café au laits, move to a house with an African concept in Mozambique.
Like David Bowie says, "ch ch changes."
Some people have said that they are envious of the lifestyle we've chosen here. That they would never be able to do what I'm doing. That it takes a certain kind of person. I tend to think anyone could do this - you just have to actually do it. Leap and the net will appear type thing.
Many things about my personality have equipped me for this lifestyle: being a social person helps, making friends easily is a good one, being a writer is huge (for me) since it allows me to spend time alone and process the things I am experiencing. But welcoming change - maybe not always liking it, but welcoming it anyway - that's the biggest element that has equipped me for life abroad.
- a little Prest-O Change-O -
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Thanks to In an Opal Hearted Country for organizing the February Expat Blog Challenge opportunity.
Day 20: The trait I possess that equipped me for life abroad OR the trait I possess that held me back the most.
Choosing to embrace change is certainly a great quality for the expat life. I wish I liked change more than I do! That's a great photo you put in at the end. Thanks for the site recommendation for free images.
ReplyDeleteGreat hat trick! I actually don't think that just anyone can do the expat lifestyle, and I really believe that the ability to accept change (or thrive on, in your case) is the key. I see so many expats on forums I read who are just miserable, about things like "I can't find Cheddar cheese" or "my house doesn't have air conditioning" - which to me translates to - I want things to be like they were at home. A lot of them adjust, but some just can't.
ReplyDeleteI adjust ... I just b**** about it every step of the way. :)
Deletegreat post, the world can be quite and adventure with the right attitude
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